Gritz

Okay I was having the same problem, but I found it on my horse. Similar to how you set your weapons. It wasn’t in my inventory anywhere so I tried it on a whim cause why not. And sure enough it was there.

The marker is not the exclamation mark but the symbol saying that mail should be available. However, the option to receive it isn’t available. Eventually I will go around and one of the post offices will allow me to pick up my mail. That being said I have made complete laps of the post offices before without being able to receive the mail.

Okay I probably missed a prompt some where, but do I or do I not need to receive mail from specific post offices? i.e. From where I mailed stuff out. Reason I ask is because I have the pick up your mail symbol on my map. I try multiple different post offices only for there to be no mail.