Dulcema

I just go into the change appearance screen, exit without making changes and I am in a private lobby. I don't shoot anything, move my camp or do anything major that would make me public again. It takes 5-10 minutes to do. Then I take a long distance delivery. I've never popped out of the private lobby during a delivery and never had a problem. It kind of defeats the purpose of playing an online game but I got business to do and watching someone else ride off in my wagon is not my ideas of fun.