I tend to agree with your stance in this matter. Griefers don't really bother me. I actually enjoy the competition. Cause to be honest, the NPCs in RDRO provide very little challenge. They are pretty much a joke. I had people messing with my wagon transporting mission last night and it made it exciting. No they weren't griefing, they were playing the game as intended. I think having the unknown factor of what players are going to do keep it exciting and interesting. I love PVE just as much as PVP. I never understood why you have to pick a side in this age old argument. Some people actually are capable of liking both equally. Whether I am running solo or with my posse, my Companion App is up. This keeps me alive and allows me to see the map at all times. Like my 45acp, I never leave home without it. Private lobbies wouldn't fix griefers. I too believe it is just a Band-aid. I do believe the "griefer" issue is being a little bit blown out of proportion. I am in my mid 70s and I have yet to leave a lobby because someone was trolling me.