These commercial holidays are just that, commercial holidays. They are meant to target consumers to spend more and feel obligated to do it. I once dated a girl who broke up with me because I didn't get her anything on Valentine's Day. She didn't talk to me for a week after and when she finally did, she asked why and I told her I don't celebrate it. She said I made her feel worthless and look like a fool to her friends, then she dumped me. If your confidence in yourself our your relationship is based on a stupid holiday like this, you have problems. Couples like you and your wife are an inspiration. I wish more people felt this way.