Abusive chat

[BropolloCreed79]

15 hours ago, madfretter said:

I think, no wait, I'm pretty sure that is the longest  use of wording to describe a "J.M" ever. congrats! lol

Not the person, but the object.  and I was a bit more... circumspect about the adjective modifying the noun.

[madfretter]

33 minutes ago, BropolloCreed79 said:

Not the person, but the object.  and I was a bit more... circumspect about the adjective modifying the noun.

Lol, I've no doubt. Back in my ARK days I got into with a player who pillared off the largest metal spawn on the map. I built a sign with some choice words about him on the back of my flying Quetzal base and took turns parking it on every base on the map for a month or two.  Without giving too much away I let him know how impressed I was with the special ways he chose to interact  with some of his dinosaurs. Not sure how it didn't get me banned. 😎 

[HuDawg]

22 hours ago, Zampen said:

I do not

I also dont tolerate racism, the n word, comments on how my dead mother smells or my fathers genitalias etc.

I would never treat my fellow brothers and sisters that way regardless, anonomys or not.

People who say things like that do so for two reasons.

1.)   You pissed them off.  So they just start blurting things out to blow off some steam.   

2.)  They are saying those things to piss you off (trash talk).  And obviously if you're the type be easily offended then they win.  Now you're angry.. and instead of using your brain you're being controlled by emotions.

So you should learn to tolerate it.  Because it doesn't matter what they say..

 

For me.. I really don't care what people say.   

Edited January 25, 2019 by HuDawg

[Zampen]

16 minutes ago, HuDawg said:

People who say things like that do so for two reasons.

1.)   You pissed them off.  So they just start blurting things out to blow off some steam.   

2.)  They are saying those things to piss you off (trash talk).  And obviously if you're the type be easily offended then they win.  Now you're angry.. and instead of using your brain you're being controlled by emotions.

So you should learn to tolerate it.  Because it doesn't matter what they say..

 

For me.. I really don't care what people say.   

1 - I would say its almost unprovoked but its not ok

2 - not angry just sad that people cant behave and treat people nice.

Its a shame really but thats the way it is I guess, never used a headset before so i am just a bit shocked over the online climate.

Have gone mute so im fine  

Cheers ❤  

Edited January 25, 2019 by Zampen

[HuDawg]

13 minutes ago, Zampen said:

1 - no its always unprovoked

2 - not angry just sad that people cant behave and treat people nice.

Its a shame really but thats the way it is I guess, never used a headset before so i am just a bit shocked over the online climate.

You gotta understand that its a mind game and its not personal.    

When you're saying.. "Its sad people can't behave'.

Why is sad?  Why does it matter?   This is not a kids game.

Maybe its just me.. I was born in the early 80s.  I was exposed to plenty of edgy offense stuff through the 80-90's.  So im totally desensitized to pretty much everything.

For me.. when people start insulting me it turns into a game.    Really, the best way to deal with someone whos trying to insult you is to laugh and mock their insults.. and insult them too in the mix of it.  Then they get angry, they start playing stupid and you capitalize on it.

 

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Edited January 25, 2019 by HuDawg

[Kean_1]

1 hour ago, HuDawg said:

Maybe its just me.. I was born in the early 80s.  I was exposed to plenty of edgy offense stuff through the 80-90's.  So im totally desensitized to pretty much everything.

No, it's not just you.  It's that way for a lot of millenials.  

Seems rude behavior, insults and that whole "in your face" attitude are not only tolerated but encouraged in some cases over qualities like good sportsmanship.  Far cry from the way I was raised but it is what it is.

As for talking smack to get in people's heads, a little ribbing is one thing but some folks using racial slurs, profanity laced threats, derogatory remarks about yourself or family members, etc. is another in my book.  I mute them, report the more extreme cases and block them.  

[shawn]

I usually let people have their fun. If they get too carried away with it though or start attacking other people be it me or someone else, I mute them and report them. I don't like to just go in guns blazing and report everyone cracking yo momma jokes or something but when it gets to a point where you are ruining someone else's fun, that is an issue.

[HuDawg]

19 hours ago, Kean_1 said:

No, it's not just you.  It's that way for a lot of millenials.  

Seems rude behavior, insults and that whole "in your face" attitude are not only tolerated but encouraged in some cases over qualities like good sportsmanship.  

I would not say that its encouraged.   

I just look at it as.. It is what it is.

19 hours ago, Kean_1 said:

As for talking smack to get in people's heads, a little ribbing is one thing but some folks using racial slurs, profanity laced threats, derogatory remarks about yourself or family members, etc. is another in my book.  I mute them, report the more extreme cases and block them.  

I agree.     But for me I never report them.

To me someone yapping to much reminds me of the this annoying little chihuahua at the end of my street.  Always yapping and barking, like hes some sort of BIG BAD DOG.  When in reality its just a little rodent that I can squish with my boot in seconds.