I mentioned it before but I used to build my own PCs for gaming and been a PC gamer since the 80's. I also worked in the industry since that time. .....I retired after 30 years.
There are pros and cons to all platforms. While I found I could future proof my PCs to an extent, there were never any guarantees that requirements, technology, etc. wouldn't change. I found myself upgrading one or two components about once every two years or so not to mention the drivers, OS and related issues to contend with depending on the game. Building, upgrading, etc. was just part of the hobby though and while fun, it's simply something I grew tired of over time. A big part of that was my fault as I wanted to get the most out of some of the new games that were coming out.
That's when I decided to go with a console. .....PS3 in this case. I liked the fact that I could just plop down on the couch, load up a game and play. I also liked the idea of having hardware that had a ~7 year life cycle and developers making games optimized for that. I bought a PS4 at launch and will buy a PS5 when I can get my hands on one. .....not because I necessarily feel PS is better than MS but it's what I'm comfortable with and where all my gaming friends are.
I'm not sure where the dig about 30FPS came from on the PS5. There are games right now that are backward compatible that are 60FPS on PS5. Just saw an article about Ghost of Tsushima running 60. It's true that some PS4 games are locked at 30 but some devs are taking advantage of the backward compatibility enhancements and making the changes while others are not. ....a few even announcing PS5 versions being released this year. There's even talk of some exceeding 60FPS.
Anyhow, I'm in the same boat as you as I'm not looking for the absolute best graphics, etc. What I say I do miss are the milsim titles, flight sims, etc. While some indie devs are looking to bridge the gap to bring some of those genres to console, we've been lacking good titles in those areas.
Personally, I'm quite happy with the performance the PS5 delivers and I look forward to a long and exciting run with it. For all the rest I would just say this..... Compare the pros and cons of each. Figure out which ticks the most boxes on your list of things you find important and decide what works best for you. ....leave the sophomoric jibes and attitude at the door.